Premarital sex
Moral or Immoral is a religious connotation in itself. Morality is the murder of free will. Free will is the purported ability of agents to make choices free from constraints.
Free will is logic and common sense, as opposed to fixed rules and constraints.
Common sense, based on a strict construction of the term, consists of what people in common would agree on : that which they “sense” as their common natural understanding. Some people (such as the authors of Merriam-Webster Online) use the phrase to refer to beliefs or propositions that — in their opinion — most people would consider prudent and of sound judgment, without reliance on esoteric knowledge or study or research, but based upon what they see as knowledge held by people “in common”. Thus “common sense” (in this view) equates to the knowledge and experience which most people already have, or which the person using the term believes that they do or should have. However this is not the common dictionary definition. The most common meaning to the phrase is good sense and sound judgement in practical matters. It has nothing to do with what other people may think or feel.
From the moment we are born we have an instinct of survival, and for a baby the hope of survival lies in its parents, thus they are dependent and later on copy the parents in most everything – simply to increase its chance of survival – it is natural, happens to all animals as well, and have nothing to do with morals. Like a pet to its “owners”, who feeds and keep them alive ? The instinct of survival of a living being is one thing, the imposed moral and values through teaching and brainwashing, is another.
On morals specifically, it works the other way around – Catholic priests, for example, are the most notorious to be involved in pedophilia – the most repression towards sex, the most desire for it, and the only way to get it out, is to go to whoever is closer and defenseless, if you know what I mean. I am sure a very similar line of thought also lives in the head of the morally sexually repressed people themselves, even if most have so long lost its self will, that they will fantasize but not go through it to its very end.
Otherwise, who in its right instincts and mind would go for a being not developed nor mature enough to be neither sexually attractive nor able to properly reproduce your own genes – as above, long term desperation. The dog is probably next in the queue.
With teenagers, as in the title of the article ‘premarital sex’, they are starting to discover it and discover it in themselves, and if there is an itch or the ‘tank’ is full, they would be as desperate as a mature person would in the same situation. Morally repressing it would do no good other than driving the teenager mad, and among others putting the dog, very old people and small children in danger, if you know what I mean.
Suppose the main thing is education, as many countries like Germany do, where sex education is by law part of the curriculum, even tho most religious (the same ones that condemn natural things like masturbation) are absolutely against it.
Among other things, at one stage they give the teenager a doll that cries every x hour and you have to “feed” it, for it to be quiet, for one day/night, so they can experience what is it like, in practice, (how hard is it) to have a child. They often return the doll next day exhausted, with a huge pair of black eyes, screaming “take that away from me” – to actually know what is it about, what is it like, and its reasons and consequences, and think by themselves about it, rather discovering every single bit about it by trial-and-error and among others for example, end being a parent to 2 children at age 16.
It have to come out somehow anyway, you can not just press a ‘repress’ button and stop all the physiology, instinct and behaviour, all in one go, inside yourself, and press it back when appropriate ie. after marriage, or like never, for a Catholic priest.
People that try to do it in the long term are and/or get mental and dangerous, even if transvestited as saints of holy (holy as in wishing many holes or mad to give its own holes) purity.
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